AWAY WE GO

AWAY WE GO

By: Amy Nicholson

Burt (John Krasinski) and Verona (Maya Rudolph) have been together since college. It’s the only thing they’ve stuck to, despite Verona’s insistence that she never wants to be officially married. And now, in their mid-thirties, they’re having a girl. Screenwriters Dave Eggers and Vendela Vida (a married couple themselves) don’t see the pregnancy as simply as a bubbly joy or a movie-of-the-week agony. It’s a wakeup call that Burt and Verona need to nail down their blue-collar bohemia, move the wood working table out of their bedroom, replace the cardboard window with glass and learn to be not just in-the-moment sufficient, but forward thinkers with a plan. (“Do I have to be this uncool for the rest of my life?” worries Verona.) As Verona was orphaned in college, they’re relying on Burt’s parents (Catherine O’Hara and Jeff Daniels) to serve as training wheels. Only when the grown-ups skip town—the height of selfishness, the parents-to-be seethe—do optimistic Burt and reticent Verona realize they can’t do this on their own and relocate to a built-in  support network to be decided after visiting their friends and relatives in Arizona, Wisconsin, Montreal and Miami.

 

This modern parable about a hipster Joseph and Mary sounds glib, but director Sam Mendes lets it breathe, restraining himself from lacquering on symbolic visuals and character constraints. Instead, though the structure—a sort of ghosts-of-families-future parade—is determined, the tone is kept as loose and uncertain as the couple itself. Krasinski and Rudolph have a lovely gravity to their relationship, and a comfortable willingness to throw hard questions at each other that everyone thinks but few say aloud. At stake is the question of what makes a family, and much of what they find isn’t pretty. Friends Lily and Lowell (Allison Janney and Jim Gaffigan) are sour jerks, Verona’s sister Ashley (Samantha Pryor) is adrift; cousin LN (Maggie Gyllenhaal) and her husband (Josh Hamilton) are smotheringly free-spirited, and Burt’s brother Courtney (Paul Schneider) has just been left by his wife. Even picture-perfect parents Tom and Munch (Chris Messina and Melanie Lynskey) have their own troubles, and the scene where we realize the sad depth of them is at once painful and beautiful; an honest acknowledgment that nothing is ideal. That’s the human truth of this very human movie—one we hear echoed at the end when Burt gushes that they’ve found their dream home and Verona musters only, “I hope so. I really fucking hope so.”

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